A Letter to Me…

We all know that hindsight is 20/20. Some of us have regrets, shoulda coulda woulda’s, and maybe even wish “someone” would have warned us about someone or something or some choice we made in life. Once I hit 30, I looked back on everything I had been through and wondered how different things may or …

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Girls and Friends

Recently someone said to me, "Your girls are not your friends." He wasn’t directing that statement specifically at me and my "girls" he was speaking in general terms. And continued with, when you are in a relationship, your girls may be happy for you are first, but the more you start to tell them and …

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Want a Michelle? Be a Barack…

Been away for a little while and during that time I have been debating what to post first when I returned. This one I think is a hot topic.I know so many guys who say they want a woman like Michelle Obama or Beyonce, crediting how these 2 very different women have held their men …

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Good for the goose??

Growing up, we have heard our parents, grandparents, guardians say: Do as I say and not as I do.If this were Monopoly, that statement would be every adult’s "get out of being called a hypocrite" card.Think about it. People only say this when their hands are caught in the cookie jar. The very same cookie …

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Because my son is Black…

So the other day I was talking to my 8 year old son and he was telling me how he is "supposed" to dress, act and talk because he is black. He was telling me how it's cool to have your pants sag a lil bit and that if one of the people in his …

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A Thousand Years

I am a big, big, BIG Twilight fan. I am sad that there won't be any more movies, yet I am very satisfied with how it ended. Today, I heard the song from the soundtrack: "A Thousand Years" by Christina Perri I love this song. Besides this being a love song (obviously) the lyrics just …

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What about your friends?

One of my fave groups back in the day was TLC. They had a song called What about your friends. Here are some of the lyrics: What about your friends? will they stand their ground? Will they let you down again? What about your friends are they gonna be low down Will they ever be …

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Come out, come out whoever you are…

Today, the only thing people pay attention to are FB statuses, tweets, and how many likes your pics get on Instagram. People are more attached to their phones and tablets and less attuned to their surroundings and relationships. Their FB friends become their “Fam” and they share their most inner thoughts and feelings with their …

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