All Settled

The last time you all heard from me, I spoke about stretching yourself (Get out of your Zone) and Faking it. These were two posts that were about stepping out on faith and out of your comfort zone, discovering your capabilities and doing what you think you cannot do. In the months after I published those …

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Get Out of Your Zone

It’s been three months  since the death of my lil brother… ( click here to learn more) and since the piece I wrote about him I kinda felt like I had writer’s block. I mean there were plenty of things I have wanted to write about but I’ve been avoiding actually sitting down and putting pen …

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Friends with (make believe) Benefits

Today… what's on my mind is Friends with Benefits.  Honestly, this isn’t on my mind today, January 28, 2014 but it is what I am going to publish today because relationships in general are on my mind and I happened to have seen the movie again last night. It was cute. Very predictable though.  And misleading. …

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A Letter to Me…

We all know that hindsight is 20/20. Some of us have regrets, shoulda coulda woulda’s, and maybe even wish “someone” would have warned us about someone or something or some choice we made in life. Once I hit 30, I looked back on everything I had been through and wondered how different things may or …

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Girls and Friends

Recently someone said to me, "Your girls are not your friends." He wasn’t directing that statement specifically at me and my "girls" he was speaking in general terms. And continued with, when you are in a relationship, your girls may be happy for you are first, but the more you start to tell them and …

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